这是我们的解决方案，与Oleg的解决方案非常相似，主要区别在于我们跟踪XHR列表以确保我们清理所有请求

var handlerUrl = '';

jQuery(document).ready(function() {
    var xhrList = [];

    var beforeSendHandler = function() {

        var cancelPendingRequests = function() {
            jQuery.each(xhrList, function() { this.abort(); });
            xhrList = [];
            return false;
        };

        var hideLoadingUI = function() {
            $(this).hide();
            $("#load_list").hide();
        };

        cancelPendingRequests();

        $("#load_list").show();

// some faffing around to ensure we only show one cancel button at a time
        if (jQuery("#cancelrequest").length == 0) {
            jQuery(".ui-jqgrid-titlebar").append(jQuery("<button   id='cancelrequest'>Cancel</button>").click(cancelPendingRequests).click(hideLoadingUI));
        } else {
            jQuery("#cancelrequest").show();
        };  
    }


    jQuery("#list").jqGrid({
        datatype: function(postdata) {

            GetSearchCriteria(); //needed for the grid's filtering

            var xhr = $.ajax({
                //we override the beforeSend so we can get at the XHRs, but this means we have to implement the default behaviour, like showing the loading message ourselves
                beforeSend: beforeSendHandler,
                dataType: "xml",
                data: postdata,
                success: function(xmlDoc) {
                    //
                    jQuery("#cancelrequest").hide();
                    $("#load_list").hide();
                    jQuery("#list")[0].addXmlData(xmlDoc);
                    xhrList = [];
                }

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